dating

A structure for meeting women

Meeting and dating women is pretty easy – there are just two things you need to do:

Be attractive
Make things happen

I know you might be reading this and thinking “is it really that easy?” and in basic terms, yes it is. Every time you’ve messed things up with a girl you liked will because you didn’t [...]

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How to talk to a girl on the phone

I often get asked “I met a girl at the weekend and took her number. What should I do now?” The advice “call her” always springs to mind, but then you wouldn’t want to end up doing this:

So that you don’t end up like Mikey in Swingers, here are a few tips to make sure [...]

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Five mistakes most men make with women

Whenever I am out socially, or teaching men how to meet women, I see guys making the same mistakes over and over again. Here are five common mistakes most men make, and how you can avoid doing the same.
#1 Waiting for something to happen
Head out to a bar in London, or anywhere else in the [...]

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Meeting women and social proof

In his great book Influence: Science and Practice, one of Robert Cialdini’s “weapons of influence” was Social Proof. Simply put, people want things that other people like them want, and will tend to base their behaviour on what others are doing. So, how does this translate into the world of dating and meeting women?
In an [...]

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