Everyone has Facebook these days and it’s one the easiest ways you can increase your success with dating and women. I’m not suggesting you should meet new girls on Facebook, but it is a great tool to build a connection with women that you meet in real life and ensure that they’re attracted to you.

Before you start a sexual relationship with a women, she’s likely to want to know a bit more about you to make sure that you’re the right kind of guy. Your Facebook page is one of the best ways to let her know that you’re exactly the kind of man that she wants to meet.

Here are a few quick tips that you can use right away to help you meet, attract and date women using Facebook.

What does your Facebook page say about you?

Take a moment to have a look at your Facebook page and imagine that you are a stranger looking at it for the first time. What first impressions does it give about the kind of person you are?

Are there photos of you doing cool things, being around other women and generally having fun?

Are your status updates funny, positive and suggest that you are successful and having a good time?

Are there lots of comments from friends, particularly female friends on your wall?

If not, time to do some editing. Make sure the photos you have uploaded and the ones you’re tagged in display you in the best light. Every so often, make a cool comment on a female friend’s wall – they will often comment back, giving you a nice bit of “social proof“. Also, remember if you change something like your profile picture or upload something new, it appears in other people’s news feeds and they are more likely to think of you and make a comment

Are you on Facebook?

Sometimes when you meet a new girl, especially if you have limited time to talk initially, it can feel a bit awkward to ask for her phone number. An easier way is to ask “Are you on Facebook?” It’s unlikely that she isn’t, and it will be a lot easier to get her to add you on Facebook than take her number if she doesn’t know you so well.

Now that you’ve made your Facebook page look great with cool photos and several girls commenting on your page, when she logs on and takes a look at you, there’s a good chance she’s going to want to get to know you better.

Don’t just stay an online friend

Once you have a new girl as a “Facebook friend”, make sure you don’t stay just that. Drop her a message soon after meeting (I’d stick to a similar rule as when dealing with girls by phone. Leave it a day or two, but not much longer).

Rather than going straight into asking her out, send her a note telling her something cool that’s happened to you and add a question at the end which allows her to respond. Something like “Hey, had a great weekend – On Sunday the funniest thing happened….XYZ…. How was yours? Dx” That way, you get a conversation going without appearing over-eager. On your next message, suggest meeting up.

Assuming she says yes, if you don’t have her number already, keep it simple with “Great, I’m on 444-444-444. And you?”

One of the key secrets to attracting and dating women is to always put your best self on display. This works in the real world and online – think of your Facebook page as an advertisement for who you are, it may help you to score some extra dates.

Tags: Facebook, meeting women, online dating, social proof

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