I can remember many times when I’ve been on a date with a girl and thought “I really want to kiss her, but what if she turns me down?” Most guys go through something similar to this whenever they want to kiss a girl for the first time. Sure, there a few things that will let you know if she is interested in you, but nothing is foolproof.

So, assuming you’re with a girl and things seem to be going well, here’s a rundown on how to make sure your first kiss goes smoothly.

Get some privacy

She’s likely to be a bit nervous about kissing you too, and probably doesn’t want loads of people staring at her while it happens. If you’re out in a club or bar, at the very least, pull her into a corner or somewhere a little quieter so that you have some privacy. If you can, suggest you go for a walk somewhere so that you can get her completely alone.

Get the moment right

Ideally, you don’t want to wait right until the end of the date for that awkward moment when she’s wondering if you’ll kiss her or not. Earlier on in the evening, when things are at a high is much better. Plus, you’ll have plenty of time then to take things a further if you both want to.

It’s all in the build up

I’ve heard all sorts of stories from girlfriends about how some guys almost try to jump on them with their tongues waggling. The trick to doing it the right way is slowly slowly. While she’s talking, look into her eyes, then down to her mouth, and back to her eyes again. Think about kissing her as you do this. Oh, and don’t forget to smile, you don’t want to look creepy now…

Touch her face

If she seems to respond well so far, lean forward slowly. Look back towards her lips as you do so, then back to her eyes, and gently stroke the back of your fingers against her cheek. If you do things right she’ll start to lean towards you too. If she doesn’t, a little smirk and a quiet “come here” should do the trick.

Gently gently

The key to the first kiss is not to push to far. Close your eyes, enjoy kissing her for a while then be the one to pull away first, leaving her wanting more. The key to getting her to want you is not to give everything away straight away – tease her a little with the first kiss. You’ve got plenty of time later for more and if you make the first kiss memorable, she’ll be waiting for it to happen.

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